Sunday, 12 September 2010
Wisdom gained
PRIDE AND STICKABILITY! This is my chanting mantra. When someone knocks you down and talks to you like you are a juvenile, cut them out and stick to your descision! Remeber the way they made you feel at that moment in time. It's over, for good. It's time, to stand straight, realise who you are and where you come from. We are worlds and dimensions apart. It's walking time. Aurevoir.
Friday, 10 September 2010
What is Perfection?
I was recently asked, “ What is the perfect guy?” to which I answered, every girl as a different ideal as to what her perfect man should be as a man would say the same.
Me personally, I don’t believe there is such a thing as perfection. You have the “perfect job” and it will slowly start to grate on you and you will undoubtedly find fault. You think you have found the perfect pair of shoes. They looks fabulous with a number of different outfits and make your legs look so sexy and girls want to be you!! An hour into wearing them, the balls of your feet start to pain, 2 hours in they are pinching your toes, 3 hours in, you want to throw them away.
After conversing with a dear friend whilst shopping in Selfridges, I filed her in on the latest dramas, one being the conclusion I made about a selected number of men who have recently gotten married to the plain Jane’s and now feel they need a little excitement. From the outside these marriages look picture perfect from the inside they regret marrying the convenient option and miss the exciting life they had with me! One of these poor souls had previously made the statement about – “Ishika, you are the type of girl every chap wants on their arm but can’t marry”! You made your bed darling.
Taking a stroll up Carnaby street confirmed this new theory I have about the opposite sex and confirmed it to my friend who was some what sceptical about my accusations despite never having been in a relationship herself. Walking up Carnaby Street surrounded my “the beautiful people” couples walking hand in hand and the men having wondering eyes. I have no qualms about people looking, but ogling, now that’s a different matter. Is it really so hard to be faithful these days? What is it that has made society so bored with what they have that they need to look elsewhere in admiration??
We live in an unsatisfied society. This is not just the case with love, but with possessions. It’s become a sad sad story of dissatisfaction and greed.
Me, I am content with my fabulous life and myself. XOXO
Me personally, I don’t believe there is such a thing as perfection. You have the “perfect job” and it will slowly start to grate on you and you will undoubtedly find fault. You think you have found the perfect pair of shoes. They looks fabulous with a number of different outfits and make your legs look so sexy and girls want to be you!! An hour into wearing them, the balls of your feet start to pain, 2 hours in they are pinching your toes, 3 hours in, you want to throw them away.
After conversing with a dear friend whilst shopping in Selfridges, I filed her in on the latest dramas, one being the conclusion I made about a selected number of men who have recently gotten married to the plain Jane’s and now feel they need a little excitement. From the outside these marriages look picture perfect from the inside they regret marrying the convenient option and miss the exciting life they had with me! One of these poor souls had previously made the statement about – “Ishika, you are the type of girl every chap wants on their arm but can’t marry”! You made your bed darling.
Taking a stroll up Carnaby street confirmed this new theory I have about the opposite sex and confirmed it to my friend who was some what sceptical about my accusations despite never having been in a relationship herself. Walking up Carnaby Street surrounded my “the beautiful people” couples walking hand in hand and the men having wondering eyes. I have no qualms about people looking, but ogling, now that’s a different matter. Is it really so hard to be faithful these days? What is it that has made society so bored with what they have that they need to look elsewhere in admiration??
We live in an unsatisfied society. This is not just the case with love, but with possessions. It’s become a sad sad story of dissatisfaction and greed.
Me, I am content with my fabulous life and myself. XOXO
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